Pullout couch

Having family and friends stay over at your house is fun, which is why many individuals make it a point to own sofa beds (aka sleeper sofas and pullout couches) and/or futons. These instant beds are really convenient, and you can put just about anywhere around the home.

Sofa beds and futons are especially great if you do not have an official guest room. Maybe you can repurpose another room. By way of instance, they can be placed in an office, living room, or family room where it will mainly be a couch, but if overnight guests arrive, you’ll have an immediate bed.


With this in mind, take a look at the space you have available, and choose the size needed for your convertible sleeper. They are usually marketed as full-size or queen beds, but very few are twin size.


You will want to buy the right size of bed linens for your sofa bed or futon.

When you are searching, notice that the mattress is much thinner than a normal mattress. You’ll need these to know whether you should groom it using conventional full-size sheet sets, or if it requires special bedding. Because there’s a large and varied market of sofa beds and futons, some will need normal linens while others need specially-ordered sheets.


Another thing to bear in mind when shopping for a sofa bed or futon is how to equip it with the maximum comfort. Due to the thinness of sofa bed mattresses, your guests may feel the frame underneath. This will provide the mattress more cushioning, mitigate the feeling of the frame beneath, and make it a more comfortable experience for your guest.

Congratulations, and allow the guests arrive!

Is your dog depressed?

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What if lately, you’ve been noticing your pet sleeps abnormally (more than normal ), eats less, seems sad, and spends all its time moping round the home. All these behaviors are completely opposite to their normal behavior. Undeniably, you may begin to worry! Depression is exactly what your furry friend may be experiencing. This problem isn’t dissimilar to that of humans.

You are used to seeing your pet happy because he or she’s always there for you whenever you are down. The mere thought of seeing your furry friend crestfallen makes you ill. Now it is your turn to be there for him or her. How can you cheer up your best friend? What are some of the methods you can use?

If your furry friend is depressed, here are 8 approaches to use to cheer up him/her:

  1. Spend ample time with your pet

Among the most effective ways to cheer up pets is by spending more time with them, especially when they’re depressed. Now, more than ever, he or she needs you – your undivided attention. Spending quality time together shows your pet how much you love and cherish him or her. To transit from the pits to his/her joyful, joyful self, simply provide your pet your support, care, and love.

  1. Indulge your pet in outside activities

Whether you have a cat or a dog, taking him for an enjoyable afternoon out in the park is a powerful way of cheering him up. In the beginning, the pet won’t seem enthusiastic. However, because you two enjoy each other’s company, you’ll be amazed by how jovial he will prove to be.

  1. Show your pet you’re happy

Did you know dogs and pets are extremely intelligent when it comes to telling if you are happy, just by taking a look at your face? Consequently, when he’s depressed, avoid frowning or showing him or her that you’re sad. An effective way to cheer up your dog is by staying happy yourself.

  1. Socialize your pet

Is your dog or cat miserable because he or she lost a companion or family member? If yes, then you want to take your pet to the park, or into a daycare center, where they can socialize with other people. According to research, animals enjoy same-species companionship.


This strategy is much more of a positive reinforcement. When he or she shows any sign of getting over depression, you should give your pet a treat or pat on the head. It’s important to note that you shouldn’t be overly sympathetic as this will encourage others to remain depressed so as to enjoy the same attention. You will need to show him or her how pleased you’re anytime he or she eats meals properly, or plays with you in the park.

  1. Comfort your pet with favorite toys

Does your dog or cat have a favorite toy? Most pets have a tendency to find comfort in familiarity. They will be more cheery if they are around their favourite toys.

  1. Play him or her some music

In precisely the same way music calms and soothes human beings, most pet owners acknowledge that music is also magical to pets. Surprisingly, you’ll be able to lift up the mood of your pet by enjoying him or her some soothing music. Just make certain that the volume isn’t too significant. The last thing you want is to make things worse.


This strategy works wonders especially if your pet loves going for rides. If possible, bring your entire family with you when stepping outside for a ride. Along with enjoying the family’s business, he or she’ll also enjoy the fresh air.

Chances are very high that the depression affecting your pet will also affect you. Consequently, before the two of you sink into depression, you should act fast. You have to find ways to cheer them up as soon as possible. The above are some simple ways you can cheer your pet.

The Cross

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Jesus was then sent to Herod who also found nothing wrong with what he did or preached. In the end, Pilate asked the people,”What shall he do with Jesus,” and they answered,”Crucify him! Crucify him!” The”him” being referred to is the son of man, or the non-integrated self, further suggesting the fruits of the binding influence of spiritual ignorance.

Therefore, the statement”Crucify him” is not about crucifying a physical person, but rather about crucifying the duality nature inherent in the human mind (generationally). It represents the causal separation from God at the individual level. Additionally,”Crucify him!” Prior to integration, this life dynamic governs individual life. Thus the term Roman governor represents the dialogue patterns of air-conditioning. “Crucify him!” Can also be referring to crucify the son of man, the emotional attachment to this residual conditioning, as well as the fruits of the material world, and to uninterrupted mental activity. Son of man is symbolic for development out of the material world of delusion, and into soul re-Membering, or divine consciousness! Thus, when our Herod temperament, the ruler of this lower ego, is crucified, we come upon Son of God status, or the Light of the purified soul.

Consider: it was the Roman soldiers that nailed Jesus to the cross. Roman soldiers signify being forced to sin before integration, which is only the experiential degree of separation. In denying this, ascension from duality is thwarted, thus prolonging suffering. The nailing of hands and feet symbolize the inability of the divine expression of this mind-body, or the inability of the brain to comprehend true spirituality. The Crown of Thorns symbolize victory over both these limitations, and the eyebrow Blood represents the flow of Christ-consciousness.

What is’the Cross’ and why take it up and follow Me?

Gal 3:19 states:”What then was the purpose of the law? It was included in order to show what wrongdoing is”.

The cross itself (as separate from the crucifixion) symbolizes the vertical and horizontal planes of existence. It is this life in duality that we will need to concentrate attention on. We need to constantly reflect. This is the religious homework assignment we all have to be engaged in. When we do so, we embark upon the vertical plane, our greatest spiritual nature.

The opposite of love is duality that’s rooted in fear and which represents the perishable rather than imperishable love or absolute existence. Duality is the medium by which the human soul must awaken. This is when the”follow Me” part of biblical instruction is achieved.

In practical terms, it’s the psychological networking of the enslaved lower human nature that’s taken up – rendered harmless to spiritual development. In other words, sub-conscious activity is neutralized through conscious expansion. Ahead of soul-freeing, the conscious mind was left powerless about the seriousness of negative thought patterns.

To make sub-conscious integration more conceptually grasping, consider a volcano erupting to the sky; in human terms, it’s the upheaval of submerged emotional thought patterns into conscious awareness. When deep-rooted mind-sets get thrown upwards for conscious reflection, they finally become incorporated. This is the way the mind returns to fullness stature; the soul freed into understanding its true unbounded nature. When horizontal and vertical become ONE, as divine consciousness, then you have the lamb lying down with the wolf.

Gal 3:23 states:

“Before the time for faith come, the legislation (binding influence of lower nature) kept us all locked up as prisoners until the coming faith shall be revealed”. This means that before transcendental awareness, the law is unyielding.

Also, Col 2:14-15:”he cancelled the unfavourable listing of our debts with its binding rules, and did away with it completely by nailing it to the Cross (by understanding duality thus do we transcend it). And from this cross (duality) freed himself from the energy of the spiritual rulers and authorities” (freed from the binding laws, from the hostage-taking nature of the subconscious jurisdiction, perpetrator of individual and global sin). This scripture is telling us: bring the inner Vertical light to rid of the flat darkness or soul slumbering.

We may remember also, once the biblical tombstone was rolled back, the apostles reported that the tomb (the mind / body) vacant, empty of sub-conscious nature, meaning that the mind-body dynamic was purified into Ascension consciousness.

The disciples are emblematic of inner-body mechanisms called the 12 cranial nerves. These cranial nerves are responsible for every human activity, to include religious development. Thus the disciples are workers serving the body-soul energetic into coming upon the inner Christ, thereby enabling God-consciousness realization. With the cranial nerves becoming purified, consciousness is enabled in perceiving spiritually, experience transcendentally. Thus, awakening these Manna-distributing channels are vital for soul nourishment and total development of spiritual and physical well-being.

And while the physical body is a creation of the universal life-force, the soul’s Core Flame is not. The soul, therefore, being the conduit of God-nature experiencing, and having entered the body, awaits awakening into spiritual nature by way of conscious contact with the universal life-force or kundalini located at the bottom of the spine. It’s this conscious contact – in the coccyx area of the spinal column – that ignites the kundalini, leading to awakening of the soul’s higher spiritual dimensions in the brain.

Believe, Noah’s Ark (human human mind) and both of everything taken to it – symbolism of duality content. By entering the body/mind meditationally, the brain eventually transcends its limitation and false identity, becomes attracted to Truth, soul-consciousness and unbounded awareness.

Gal 3-25 puts it:”Now the time for faith (transcendental consciousness) is here (direct experience), the Law is no longer in control of us”. Again, by inputting meditationally to the body / duality, the brain gets to experience transcendentally, gets to know what neutralizes the legislation, knowing which, like Noah’s Ark, the mind comes upon Mount or Unity consciousness, highest level of human development.

Jesus puts it John 2:19:”I will knock down this temple (duality character ) and rebuild it in three days” – 3 symbolizing Unity, and days, period of transforming consciousness.

Similar to faith-consciousness, attaining Unity is not an exercise of memory referencing and intellectualizing of scriptures only. Similarly, when a gap in our thought cycle appears, Unity becomes experiential. By regularly expanding the thought-gap, expanding stillness and silence tolerance in mind, the Sun or Unity awareness becomes as ever-present bliss-consciousness.

As duality character and sub-conscious content conspire at forming human consciousness – what preserves lower human nature – thus, unwittingly, through spiritual ignorance, do we create the very conditions for the purpose of transmuting such knowingly. Here, Matthew 16:18 reassures us:”The gates of hell (lower nature) won’t prevail against it” (Christ-consciousness) and, again, Mathew 28:20″lo, I am with you always even unto the ends of the world” (end of duality, lower nature and subconsciousness).

Jesus carrying the cross public roads, with soldiers whipping and driving him , symbolizes the choice-less lively, before spiritual awakening, of sub-conscious content in our daily life. Jesus dropped 3-times – 3 representing Divinity – meaning, we have each dropped from Divinity by way of this inherited duality / lower character. But, then, this is why we came to world: to consciously transcend such, thereby understanding Higher states of consciousness.

Reality of Existence

The truth of our presence is two-fold: we are both relative and absolute concurrently. But in the early stages of religious development, human consciousness is aware only in the relative-duality, and non-aware at Absolute-Unity status. This is because, at nervous system level, a medium of experiencing greater consciousness has not been set up – the biblical veil has not been rented.

In other words, prior to Self-realization the human nervous system works in mono or duality awareness only; the nervous system is reflecting only what is set-up, reflecting only what’s been cultured into it. Thus, for the nervous system to get any expertise, there must be a corresponding expertise set up, a reflective dynamic capable of knowing simultaneous consciousnesses. Within this context, to experience Unity or transcendental nature, the nervous system has to be cultured into withstanding such. We cannot arrive at higher states of consciousness by an act of will or enforced belief systems. In attaining higher states of consciousness, a practical means of inner culturing is required; a process which involves natural harmonization of left-side and right-side brain. This complete brain encountering enables the knowing and retention of the eternal unity and comparative duality consciousness simultaneously.

Alternating between transcendental silence in meditation and worldly action after meditation, over time transforms the nervous system / brain whereby simultaneous-knowing capacity of absolute and comparative / duality is maintained – human life staying permanently under Higher Self guidance while still at the relative world. In arriving at simultaneous consciousness capacity, thus eternal status is validated. When both elements of our existence co-exist as a Whole, making the kingdom of heaven within a conscious reality: experiential beyond dogma, philosophy and belief systems.

Total Potentiality

Each soul in character is a hieroglyph of Eternal Spirit, of the Kingdom of Heaven. The knowing of such Essence is through the physical body, in particular, the intellect. In bringing the wisdom to convergence, to stage consciousness between the eyebrows in meditation, the intellect, feelings, sensations and will, each become Essence aligned, cosmically firing, made Resolute. Such is when set-up in the brain / nervous system permits for Total Potentiality or Infinite Intelligence become aware reality, becomes recognized brain-nervous system consciousness – Awareness rooted eternally in Divine Essence, in Vertical Will.

As we can see, prior to spiritual awakening, we’re each as spiritually dead, in need of’lift up’ – oblivious of our inherent absolute status. Due to this spiritual death, individual internal Christ or Higher Self remains temporarily from Commission, buried by accumulations of non-neutralized lower-self energy patterns. Hence the buried Christ known in scripture isn’t referring to some historical person, but to our own Christ within anticipating Resurrection to our consciousness.

So, finally, let’s establish what”take up thy cross” IS NOT. It’s two beams of timber on our shoulder or on anybody else’s shoulder. Nor is it all about enduring some life-situation heroically in order to please God. And although perhaps conditioned by literal Bible interpretation into thinking this way, this scripture is not remotely relating to either of these two examples.

In conclusion,

“And I myself will send upon you what my dad has promised (our own indwelling Christ). However, You must wait in the City (meditate, transformation of individual consciousness) until the energy from above (Divine Light) comes down upon you (our soul awakening)” Luke 24-49

Wasting time on social media

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When I was walking past a few stores quite a few weeks ago, I saw that there were lots of people in their Smartphone’s. As it was not busy, these folks were busy using their Smartphone’s.

This didn’t come to mind because I thought that these people should be reading books, though.

A Waste of Time

It came to mind because I thought they would get far more out of reading books than they would by using their device. Rather than scrolling through different social networking sites, they would have the ability to expand their mind with new information.

Now, there is always the chance that these folks were reading an eBook on their apparatus or that they were sending important messages. I don’t have any way of proving that these folks were using different social networking sites.

A Frequent Occurrence

However, even if these people were using their time in a productive manner, it does not mean that they will always use their time this way. Furthermore, there are undoubtedly a great deal of folks who do spend a whole lot of their time using these sites.

When I was able to spend a decent amount of time using different social media sites before, time just seemed to fly by.

Meaningless Messages

This was a time when I’d send messages to people I actually saw in the actual world and to people I hadn’t seen in years. So, while a fair quantity of dopamine was released in my own, not much else took place.

I came to find that I could use my time better, which caused me to cut down the amount of time I typically spent on those websites.

Can You Relate to This?

If you can see that you are spending a good amount of time on social media every day, and you need this to change, there are plenty of other things that you can do with your time. There are all kinds of books that you may read, if studying is the thing; if it isn’t, you can try a new hobby.

In the short term, it may not seem as though what you’re doing is not having much of an impact on your life, but as time passes, you will see just how much you’ve learned by spending less time on social networking. Additionally, some of the time that you spent on social media will now go towards your objectives, making it easier for you to reach them.


The modem day world is indeed full of distractions that it can be easy to get lost in what’s going on’out there’ and to forget about what’s happening internally. Tuning into what matters is challenging with so many distractions and, once we’ve done this, it takes a concerted effort to not be drawn off course by the bright lights that are all around us.

Teacher, prolific writer, writer, and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, such as love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With over two thousand in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.

Grand-Children the Great

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Grandparents the world over are finding they are being thrust into parenting jobs, which leaves them drained and some unable to cope. The situation is driven by the requirement for parents to get ahead and they are pushed by financial burdens and desires into a situation where their kids must be cared for outside of the house. This entails child-minding by others and it usually falls into the seniors so as to save money.
The world has changed considerably in the days when women were home makers. Now it is recognized that they have to do their but to bring in income and share the burden of home ownership and other things they need. It is, however, a case of whether the elderly folk can actually replace the parents in their new role.
Many are elderly and some infirm and only taking a kid in is a burden. In recent conversations with grandmothers who have this scenario one, who is over 60, has to look after some 12 grandchildren during school holidays an at other times 6 of these. She listed the burden of cost as there’s no financial compensation for what she does. Meals, snacks, and even clothing are paid for from her pension.
While a visit to the lake where there are amazing facilities for walking and spending time the number of grandparents pushing young children in strollers or kicking balls around together on the oval is telling. This was especially noticeable during the recent school holidays.
There’s absolutely no solution to this problem because the attention of everybody seems to be on making money rather than caring for children.

Boudoir Photography

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Boudoir photography is gaining a great deal of popularity and the photo shoots and the albums have now become a great gift for husbands on the wedding day. This is the opportunity for women to show off their sexy side to their spouses and it makes a great and tasteful gift.
The boudoir photographers are now great masters and they create classy, sensual and refined images of women while they are in their lingerie. However, before you choose to go down this road, it is important to know some basics of the entire procedure and the things that you should expect during the shoot.
Boudoir is French and it means that a woman’s bedroom or private dressing area. When it comes to photography, it can be described as style where girls pose while partly dressed while in their lingerie. These photos are somewhat tasteful. Nudity is not explicit, but instead implied. The albums and photos may be utilised as birthday, holiday, Anniversary and wedding day presents for husbands. The photo is aimed at showing how great a woman feels and looks at the specific point in time.
Selecting the photographer
Exactly like your wedding , you need to choose the right boudoir photographer. You will need to find somebody who you will be comfortable about. Interview a few candidates until you settle for one and look at portfolios too, this can allow you to figure out if their style is to your liking.
After a photographer has been selected, choose the place where the photo-shoot should take place. Most photographers have a studio for this purpose where you find beds and chairs set up for different scenes and settings. If you would like, you can use this or a hotel room or any other personal location you want.
The photographs in this category are mainly lingerie, but it doesn’t mean you have to go searching for undergarments. You need to really think of the look that you are aiming at. Different things go for different moods such as glam, pinup, playful or hot. It is not also a must to pose in your panties. There are other small outfits which you can choose like tank tops with jeans and so on. Settling for the things that your fiancé loves may actually make it an even greater gift.
So as to maintain character, hair and makeup have to be nicely done. Many studios offer makeup artists and hairstylist on site as part of the entire package. You can have as much or as little makeup as you need and it’s best to consider what your man likes.
The poses
The photographers are very versed when it comes to presents and they will advise you on this. Torso twists, leg lifts, and arched backs are very popular with the boudoir photos. You’ll get directions as the shoot continues on and you will be given demonstrations and suggestions for the best moods and gazes you could try .

The Dead Sea

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The Dead Sea

Dead Sea, situated in the south of the Jordan Valley, the salty closed sea 400 meters below sea level is the lowest spot on Earth.
The Dead Sea is famous for its extraordinary salt and mineral content, which lots of people say makes it a natural healing agent for skin problems. To ORDER The Dead Sea Products Click HERE. Or visit http://www.giftsfromtheholyland.com. People from all over the world have been visiting the Dead Sea for many years for curative treatments and to enjoy its relaxing waters.

5.000 Years of History

King David, King Herod, Jesus, and John Baptist were closely linked with the Dead Sea and its surroundings. The prophets understood it via the infamous Sodom and Gomorra. During the Egyptian conquest it is said that Queen Cleopatra obtained exclusive rights to build cosmetic and pharmaceutical factories in the region. Aristotle wrote about the remarkable waters. In Roman times the Essenes settled in Qumran on the Dead Sea northern shore as a place of refuge and on the heights of Masada a small group of rebellious Jewish zealots held out against the might of the Roman Legion. The remoteness of this region attracted Greek Orthodox monks since the Byzantine era. Their monasteries such as Saint George in Wadi Kelt and Mar Saba in the Judean Desert are places of pilgrimage. Bedouin tribes have always lived in the region and more recently explorers and scientists arrived to analyze the minerals and conduct research into the exceptional climate. Since the 1960’s, tourists from all of the world also have researched the Dead Sea area.

The Lowest Point on Earth

Located on the heart of the Great Syrian-African rift valley which stretches throughout Israel and beyond, the Dead Sea is the lowest point on the ground (400 meters or 1,320 feet below sea level), and is flanked by the Judean Mountains on the west, the Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan and the Mountains of Moab on the east, the Jordan Valley and Sea of Galilee to the north and the Negev Desert in Addition to the Red Sea to the south.

The Dead Sea Water

The water of the Dead Sea contains 21 minerals including magnesium, calcium, bromine and potassium. 12 of these are found in no other area or ocean and some are recognized for imparting a relaxed feeling, nourishing the skin, activating the circulatory systems and for easing rheumatic discomfort and metabolic disorders. For instance, the Dead Sea contains 10 times more salts and minerals than the Mediterranean Sea. The high salt and mineral concentration enables everyone to float in its waters but does not allow the proliferation of fish and other marine life.

Thermo-mineral Springs

Found in Many places along the Dead Sea shores. The many minerals contained in the warm water are dominated by sulfur. Soaking in the heated sulfur pools activates the circulatory system and increases the oxygen supply to the body.

Flows from the Judean Hills into the lower regions fronting the Dead Sea. When trekking across the area’s”wadis” (seasonal dry river beds) and oasis, one can often splash in waterfalls and cool streams. Natural mineral spring water is bottled and locally marketed around the nation.

The Sun

The Dead Sea is the only place in the world where one can sunbathe for extended periods with little if any sunburn because harmful ultraviolet rays are filtered through three natural layers: an additional atmospheric layer, an evaporation layer that exists above the Dead Sea and a rather thick ozone layer.

The Air
The region’s miraculous air is dry, unpolluted and pollen-free with low humidity. Due to the constant evaporation, the air has high concentrations of many minerals, mainly bromine, providing a genuinely calming effect.

Due to the high barometric pressure it’s approximately 8% more oxygen than anyplace else in the world and consequently makes breathing easier.

Black Mud

A signature element of the Dead Sea, black sand is homogeneous mixture of Dead Sea minerals, important organic elements in the shoreline as well as earth. Indulging in a dark mud body wrap has both therapeutic and cosmetic benefits – known to cleanse and stimulate the skin, relieve muscle and psychological tensions, improve blood flow, and ease rheumatic pain. The rich minerals and the sand tightening actions promote flow by increasing the supply of oxygen to and removing the toxins from the skin, thus firming and toning up skin tissues, leaves the skin glowing and youthful looking. Dead Sea Mineral Mud cleans, purifies, and restores the skin’s natural minerals.

The Salt

As the name implies, the Dead Sea is devoid of life because of an extremely high content of salts and minerals. It’s these natural components which gave the water its curative powers. Dead Sea Salt and Dead Sea Mud have been recognized by millions of people as one source of health and beauty since the days of Herod the Great, over 2,000 years back. The Dead Sea has a 33% concentration of salts and minerals (compared to only 3% in the sea ). Dead Sea Salt original mineral composition improves cell metabolism and leads to its restoration and regeneration. Dead Sea Salt also acts as a disinfectant and aid in removing harmful substances from the skin.

Being Black Today

Man Under Waterfall, Waterfall, Strong

Being being a man in this day an age is almost like taking a roller coaster ride through life, Whoa! I hear you say, Before you get on your high horse, just allow me to say that I have spoken to plenty of my buddies about this, Black and White and all of them agreed with what I had to say. . Cool! Right where was I.. .

Yes, being a young black man and living in britain or in my case London daily it can be as suggested a roller coaster ride. Here are just a few of the examples of the Highs and Lows of being a Black man, well for me anyway!

Firstly I have to say, the something that gets me is the staring, it is the obvious low!

White girls, white men, Chinese people etc, they all stare, it is funny but Indian Men and Women don’t stare as much, maybe they feel secure or are just use to the exact same treatment! Who knows? I mean I can walk on any street, night and day and its always the same, take just the other day, it was 5pm on a Thursday, it was a lovely day, there I was walking up a very prominent road near Holland park, near where I actually live, I always walk on the right hand side of any road or street, I don’t know why its just my way! So as I was walking, playing tunes from my ipod and taking in the sights of this beautiful beautiful Houses on this street. Ahead of me I could see a very attractive woman and yes she was white, as I got closer to this lady I noticed she had been looking straight at me, I thought to myself great she is stunning and she is looking at me, cool! However, as we got nearer she paused and crossed over to the other side of the street and as she did, she kept looking back at me. . .Hmm! I thought to myself, not good! Now again, do not fly of the handle but to me it looked as though she had been scared of me or found me threatening. Which is understandable in this day an age with how society is but what got me was that this street was pretty long and if she wanted to cross over why did not she do it much earlier? However, it got worse for me that specific day because within a minute or 2. . .it happen again and this time the lady was much older. I was beginning to think I must seem like a ideal villain in spite of the fact that I had been dress very decent plus I was carrying my guitar (instance ) on my shoulders.

This might be just the area of Holland Park I hear you say but I will tell you that this occurs every other day to me and to most Black Men around the united kingdom. We won’t talk about the police and the stop and search variable but I will say that, that’s only gone completely over the top, too much stories to tell so I’ll stop there because that’s just the one of the lows, now let me give you a high, I think you deserve to hear the advantages in addition to the downsides but after hearing it, would you say it was a positive thing or a negative thing?

Well! . .one of the best things about being a Black Man is how Women perceive us, Black men attract women in a different manner than the normal man, or should I say a white man. White men will always get girls because it’s their world and that is fine by me but being Black we have something that they will never have and know. We have the difference! Women who like this gap may tell you, that they enjoy it because they simply prefer black men, I think that there’s a deeper meaning to the madness. I think it comes down to one thing and that is fear. I can almost hear you say, what the hell is this guy talking about? Well take it from me; we understand that if we need something and we know we can not have it, we tend to go out of our way to get it and that’s how all of this started, it’s just progressed quietly within different generations, cultures and life generally. Are you still with me?

I’ve travelled around the world and every time I leave the UK I’m always racially abused in some way, from airport security around the world to European cities in which there are zero Black guys and so as soon as you get of the plane you become like a alien and everyone stares at you and sees the gap that I have been talking about. But going back to the girls for a second or two, they do often see something else than their male counterparts. Most times it’s great for me, sometimes it’s not but being just a man you can not always get the girl! Different women from all over the world prefer a certain type of person, be it about their religious beliefs, or sexually traits or their fear of the difference, What I have observed and have made a note of is that Asian women i.e. Indian or Chinese won’t be seen dead using a Black guy, Eastern girls are a little different, the new generation of young women do find Black men more attractive but that depends on the nationality of the Black man. American girls are certainly mixing it in the moment a great deal more than ever but that is down to the way Black men are portrayed in the united states. English Girls are showing signs but for me mostly in cosmopolitan London. Irish and Scottish White women will not go down that road. The welsh women are much more receptive to the idea but generally there is still segregation amongst the mixing of Black Men and White Women across the world, again for me it is very much understandable.

In my case I get lots of attention from White women in fact much more than I’d get from Black ladies, so what does that tell you! So as I said, is it a good thing or bad thing? If you don’t believe me just check out any dating site, that’s where all of the evidence is. Just look at what the girls want and you’ll see. . .90percent of those women want white males and only 10% do not care what the man looks like. Why, Well! Again that’s just how the world is, preference is very important to most people.

So the ride persists. . .we have had our ups and downs, what more can I add, well the worse part of this ride for me is simple and it’s the way society sees Black men as a whole! This is a touchy subject that haunts me to the heart of my spirit but what people really don’t understand is that being Black we see things very simple, we don’t go around thinking we’re better than anybody that’s the first thingwe do not see racism through our eyes when we look at a different culture, we do not wonder why you are that colour and why we are this colour but with how we’ve been duped by the planet with easy things like Good is shown by the colour White and Bad is revealed as Black, its simple things like this that continues beliefs in white culture which color Black should be feared.

Also the lack of White people around the World, not knowing just where they come from and their own history, Being a Black Man or Black Woman we naturally wish to understand our roots and we pursue this everyday and the majority of the new generation of Blacks around the world know much more about where they come from, much more than a White Person. The History of Black people is seldom told so we are left to our own devices to get the questions and answers so that we are the proud people and race which we are now. Remember this is only my view point of the situation about being a Black. Yours may be different but that’s what makes us the people we are. So today and the next day and the months and years ahead I will continue my Roller Coaster Ride as a Black guy and hopefully I’ll see some changes in my time, Hopefully!

UFO Advocates go Nuts

Fantasy, Science Fiction, Forward, Ufo

Believers and long-time investigators of Unidentified Flying Objects phenomena expressed disappointment regarding the way Peter Jennings handled the ABC News Special Report recently led to the United States television audience.

They anticipated Peter Jennings Special ABC News Report on UFOs to leave non-believers with a positive impression of this often disputed topic. However, even with such convincing research, photos, and documentation as was made accessible to the show’s producers to use by valid investigators, ABC still elected not to use the majority of the best material.

“The first hour of the broadcast was great,” said one frustrated viewer. “Then, in the second half, they turned it around in such a way as to leave countless undecided. ABC’s experts were skeptical of eye-witness sightings, and ignored any official cover-up or disinformation agenda regarding UFOs, extraterrestrials, flying saucers, and alien abductions by our government.”

In startling contrast to the Jennings’ report with its convenient,”Computer generated animation’s” the well informed 700 UFO Congress attendees watched”Real time/dated video footage.” A demonstration showing hundreds of UFOs, extraterrestrial, or alien aerial craft was presented by Mexico’s most respected,”60 Minutes”,”Sunday To Sunday”, and”ECO” anchor & prestigious journalist, Jaime Maussan.

Maussan was one of the over one-dozen distinguished speakers, scientists, researchers, UFO researchers, retired military analysts, renowned authors, university professors, and internationally acclaimed experts, assembled from around the world, who presented conclusive evidence of ordinary alien visitations to Earth Earth.

The worldwide view was overwhelmingly positive in agreement that UFOs are real and the consequences of their growing willingness to allow themselves to be filmed is another indication that the populace of the planet needs to be brought up to speed.

The Safespace News Agency, a fact based video News Magazine was established on the premise that THE MAINSTREAM NEWS IS THE COVER-UP!

In accordance with Safespace North American manufacturer, Robert D. Miles,”Our journalists at http://SafespaceProject.com are ready to debunk the debunkers,” he promised. “We are preparing to tell the world the true story of what’s really happening, on a planetary basis. Viewers will see our world as it really is, not as they’re now being told it is, by the mainstream media.

In the near future, stirred-up UFO advocates might not be let-down.

Cheaper Gas

Filling Station, Gas, Gas Station

Very once in a while, someone begins a campaign to reduce gasoline prices by urging everyone not to purchase any gas on a certain date. The preferred date is far enough in the future to permit for a massive e-mail and newscast effort to spread the news far and wide throughout the land and get everyone geared up for the big day. The idea is that the resulting surplus of unsold gas would force distributors to lower the prices in order to be able to unload the stuff. There are two issues with this idea: 1) almost nobody participates and 2) people who do participate purchase their gas the day before or the day after the target date, so the net result is the same amount of gas is sold and the price stays too high.

I have noticed that most drivers completely ignore the speed limit on the freeway. Where I live, the freeway speed limit in town is 65 mph. It’s quite possible to drive that fast in the right hand (“slow”) lane and have people come up on your bumper and provide you an annoyed look as they go around you because they believe you are driving too slowly! 80 miles in the left hand (“fast” or”passing”) lane is normal, as are people in hurry braiding in and out of lanes because they think their time is more important than yours and you are in their way. You might not want to hear this, but such driving wastes gas! The same gas you complain and moan about every time you fill out at the pump becomes wasted out on the freeway by such drivers. Maybe even YOU??? (Nah…)

According to the website Howstuffworks, the ideal mileage can be accomplished by driving between 40-60 mph. Now I am here to tell you that driving 40 miles on the freeway will get you one of three things: 1) a ticket for impeding the flow of traffic 2) to – or getting the cause of – and injury 3) killed. However, driving at 60 mph will not cause any more dirty looks than driving at 65, as long as you remain in the right hand lane. You won’t result in any accidents, and you won’t get a ticket for impeding traffic. Again, according to Howstuffworks, gas mileage decreases rapidly at speeds above 60 mph. So you’re wasting gas and wasting money by driving faster than 60 mph.

Now I can hear you already:”However, I am late!” Plan ahead, and leave a few minutes earlier. Think about it for a moment. If you drive 65 mph for one whole hour, you’ll only be 5 miles farther down the road that if you drove 60 mph for that exact same hour. Those of you who spend an entire hour commuting are usually not driving 65 miles. You are driving more like 10 miles, crawling along at running speeds. This will not work for that type of commute. But if your drive is such that you have the option of driving faster than 60 mph, DON’T! Set your cruise control at 60 mph, slow down and save.

The great thing about the system is that you benefit from it even if nobody else participates! There is a very real possibility you could fill up your tank one less time per month. That would save you $20-$50 per month, which is $240-$600 per year. Spend it on Christmas presents. Splurge a bit on your vacation. There are lots of ways that you could enjoy the extra money. And if other people participate, because more and more people would be buying one less tank of gas per month, the distribution really would go up because the need really would be down, which would mean lower costs which would benefit everybody (except possibly OPEC, and they don’t want the money.) Try it!